Friday, 10 March 2017

What is one-sided love

I will write this answer from a girl's point of view.
Long story short- it's tormenting, heart - wrenching,  suffering. You love someone unconditionally, get amused by the stupid jokes he cracks. You get drawn towards his simplicity, foolish yet sweet nature. Whatever he does seems amazing to you. He says a simple "Hello" to you and you cannot help smiling and blushing.
But mind you, these are all YOUR feelings. It's only YOU who is getting drawn towards him. It's YOU who is taking it to the next level without even knowing whether he is thinking the same or not.
You think of confessing your feelings to him, not comprehending what his answers will be. You fear of rejection. But you rejoice at the thoughts of being accepted. So gathering all your guts you let out your feelings to him.
And then comes a big fat REJECTION. Your feelings, dreams, desires get demolished. Your feelings are not reciprocated from the other side. At first you can't even believe this rejection.  Your soul becomes naked, vulnerable and timid. But with time you get to accept his rejection and recognize it. The bitter truth takes time for its recognition.
Anyway, run away from one sided love. Run as far as you can when there's time. Don't yield into your own assumptions and dreams. Be sure about your partner's feelings about you. Even if she or he gives you subtle hints, do not build a castle in air. Try not to take anything to heart. And most of all, be strong.